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On the Couch: A Mental Health Blog
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Mental Health Support
Free, trauma-informed mental health resources including therapy worksheets, coping tools, and psychoeducation. Explore topics like anxiety, depression, boundaries, self-compassion, CBT, burnout, and emotional regulation—designed to support healing, self-awareness, and nervous system care in everyday life. Downloadable and client-friendly for all stages of the journey.


🎁✨Unwrapping Holiday Stress: How to Cope, Care, and Thrive
Key Points: Holiday stress can worsen mental health symptoms—64% of people with mental health conditions experience increased stress during the season Stress during the holidays affects sleep, mood, and energy People cope in different ways; some process stress emotionally, others prefer action or routines Rituals and routines can offer grounding and relief when things feel overwhelming Support is always available—reaching out is a sign of strength By Matee Gooknuh The holida
Matee Gooknuh
Dec 22, 2025


Let’s Talk Attachment 👩🏽🤝👨🏿: Why Your Relationship Patterns Aren’t Random
Key Points: Attachment theory explains how early relationships shape adult connection patterns. Three main styles: Secure, Anxious, and Avoidant—none are “bad,” just different ways of coping. Understanding your style helps interrupt reactive cycles and build intentional relationships. Neuroscience supports attachment theory—our brains are wired for connection, and patterns can shift with support. Secure attachment is possible through awareness, healing, and emotionally safe r

Bianca Bell
Nov 17, 2025


Setting Healthy Boundaries: Holiday Edition - ❤️❌🦃🎄
The holidays can bring connection, joy—and a lot of pressure. Whether it’s navigating family expectations, social fatigue, or grief that resurfaces this time of year, setting boundaries is essential. In this post, we’ll explore how to protect your energy, honor your needs, and create space for rest and meaning during a season that often asks too much. Your peace matters, and your “no” is enough.
Matee Gooknuh
Nov 6, 2025


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